all believe that we love, we all believe we can be loved ... Yet love is one of the most difficult to resolve by the very fact that we played like no other feeling or mood can. Love binds us to another person you want to share a day now more than a hello and goodbye tomorrow.
Around the idea of \u200b\u200bwhat is and how it should be a love affair turn various myths, one of them tells us that it is during the hours of sexual intimacy when the couple can express their love in finished by the partner a. Thus, the bed and the four walls of a room (in the most comfortable of the cases) is in a space that fosters the most powerful and vital of all interactions that may have two people who claim to love, and at one stage as that will be seen in full, empowering one or another way to another / to the dis-cover his own body. She strips the soul.
Transfer to a stage of the affair as it involves much more than the vast majority of people think. Do not imagine for love suffers a sort of desecration and increasingly lose the wonder at the novelty of knowing a body that is not their own. No longer the case that miracle is delighted with body shapes that are not ours and that inevitably remind us to recognize themselves as human as the body is presented to us in a time like this. Getting to that point and remain in the wake require a special kind of love: erotic love.
Erotic love requires us to complete fusion with the partner / a. It is characterized by its uniqueness by seeking to share a sexual desire to be understood as a result of mutual knowledge of two people who have become convinced that they love and can afford a similar discovery. We share a healthy sex drive and led by love. It would be legitimate to share one that has been spurred by the anguish of solitude or the mere fact of winning / being conquered, or simple vanity. Want someone you can not physically be at any time a valid argument to say that you love someone. Quite the contrary, as we said Erich Fromm in The Art of Loving :
Love can inspire the desire for sexual union, but if the desire for physical union is not stimulated by love never leads to marriage except in sense and transitional orgiastic ...
often sexual attraction can fool us by creating the illusion of the union. However, if there is no false love this union ends up leaving his players as much or more solos as they were at home. Satisfied organic necessity becomes a reality, one finds the non-union of those bodies and those involved are embarrassed because they realize that they have dis-covered their bodies and souls to the wrong person. The same happens in the biblical Adam and Eve eat the apple from the tree of knowledge of good and evil and moments later acknowledge a fault: have done what not to do while you are aware of misuse that have given to their bodies and the ability to dis-cover.
While it is true that love is voluntary, and that one is delivered free to decide to love, it is also true that the delivery and dis-cover that can not be a bat. Love and choose to love someone should be a thing thought, to include a rational choice can prevail where the trial and the wisdom to help shape a proposal that is expected to promise lasting love.
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